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Subject: 90/10
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miaiad 29.06.21 - 01:08am
We seldom really rely on chance in our everyday life - for the most part, we decide ourselves how our day will be. That's what writer Stephen Covey calls the 90/10 principle, and he shows how it works using an obvious example.
The thing is, we can't control only 10 of events in our lives. We can't prevent a device from breaking or a flight from being delayed. However, we can control our own reaction to such things.
The other 90 of events are the result of our reactions - to put it simply, what we do when we're stressed out.
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miaiad 29.06.21 - 01:09am
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shazza6 29.06.21 - 10:54am
Hopefully that works lol thanks miaiad ;) * +
ogdenz 29.06.21 - 09:50pm
So observe your mental processes then alter them accordingly. Let's say there are 1000 things that annoy you..then why not learn a technique to not get annoyed as opposed to trying to alter the annoying things?
Sounds a bit like Buddhism to me. * +
miaiad 30.06.21 - 01:31am
I do not know what Budhhism says in this regard, but obviously it is about controlling your mental/emotional/spoken/physical reactions.
Not getting annoyed at all needs lots of struggle, and might not be easy to everyone. * +
crail 30.06.21 - 06:41am
It's a great sentiment but doesn't work well with humans with hormones etc * +
0gypsy0 1.07.21 - 07:35am
Or simply just avoid people who annoy you * +
0gypsy0 1.07.21 - 07:38am
all you have to do is breathe and still, hell will manifest itself.. So stop breathing... how dare you * +
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