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Subject: An expensive lesson you've learned?
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tazdevil 3.08.19 - 09:30am
Guys, remember my 'bestie' at work? The girl I posted about previously with whom I developed a close friendship pretty quick (huge mistake) and felt a spiritual connection with? She is turning out to be a complete b*tch.

She is such a backstabber! As soon as someone walks out, she starts b*tching about them. It's been 4 months since she joined and during this time-frame, I've discovered that she is not really a friend. She is a two-faced, deceitful, insecure, overly-competitive, overly-confident, dishonest, likes to start drama in the work place, always concerned about everybody else's business (such as what others are doing outside of work with their lives, what they did before, where they live etc) type of person.

She also gossips about other people's partners, and speaks on matters without knowing the facts. I find it awful, and honestly can't be bothered with it all. It emotionally affects me, my work and my mental peace. I adore my job! It's perfect, but she is having such a negative impact.

A lesson I've learned:
When people show you their true colours, believe them! And don't be too quick to trust people, and/or too quick to label them as a lover/friend. People are shady as f*ck!

What lesson took you way too long to learn?

Sorry for the essay, needed to get it out lol * +

gt_tdi 3.08.19 - 09:35am
That's a lot of words that I couldn't be arsed to read.

Expensive lesson: Crashing motorbikes into cars is bad. * +

ladibud 3.08.19 - 12:49pm
can think of any... as for this co worker, it was bound to happen. I don't trust anyone why forges such intimate friendships so quick. * +

ogdenz 3.08.19 - 01:15pm
I cant read all that. * +

rajacku 3.08.19 - 01:22pm
KISS * +

tazdevil 3.08.19 - 01:30pm

It's my own fault really. I labelled her as my 'work bestie' so quick. She's fake and shady as f*ck! * +

tazdevil 3.08.19 - 01:30pm
I work with all women (except my boss) and they are all kinda two-faced, but this girl is a right wagon. Even our manager is a bit intimidated by her. She is also incredibly dismissive and patronizing. Her tone when she speaks to us is basically as if we are her daughters, and she feels she is our boss (which she is not)

I don't want to lose my rag with her because we both work together so I need to be professional. How do you handle these type of people being co-workers without making enemies? * +

prattle 3.08.19 - 02:10pm
First, shut up.

Second, shut up some more * +

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