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Subject: minor irritations
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iilmadme 21.07.18 - 02:55pm
Do you feel like you have to mention them all to the peopleyou live around or do you sometimes/often adapt your own response n take one for the team? * +
3mel 21.07.18 - 02:56pm
I've taken thousands for a shiit team, but sometimes other people need to know about it for their own good. * +
iilmadme 21.07.18 - 02:57pm
You know,those petty issues where you can either make someone change their behaviour and risk upsetting them.or just clean up the mess yourself for the sake of peace * +
dodgey 21.07.18 - 02:59pm
Tell someone if they annoy you, fk what they think. * +
iilmadme 21.07.18 - 03:02pm
Ive had a couple of 'complaints' today lol..me personally,if i mention something at all it's because ive weighed up how important it is in the grand scheme of things..and then it gets ignored anyway lol * +
mikeymk 21.07.18 - 03:07pm
I'm pretty oblivious to upsetting people, i kinda know if something is unlikely to be well perceived, through experience, but i can still get it very wrong.
I find people are generally emotionally highjacked, and offending them is easily done just by being real.
And not only that but them taking it personally can leave them feeling like they don't know where they are with you anymore. People are quite unstable, really. Compared to me.
But i don't care, i'm not creeping around on egg shells just because people are fragile, i don't need the stress. It's a tough world. Like this is how it is, deal with it or don't, and we go from there. Or i do, keep up or don't bother, whatever. * +
iilmadme 21.07.18 - 03:13pm
There are things my mom does that drive me spare.but im really conscious of the fact that the day will come when i'd give anything to find a little bit of her mess lying around...and it takes me a second or two to deal with ot for her * +
iilmadme 21.07.18 - 03:16pm
The only exception to this is if it seems dangerous and the sort of thing i might not keep on top of * +
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