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Subject: Morale dilemma
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pariah 2.02.14 - 10:00pm
Or a good excuse? U might've read a topic of mine where I was checking out the a*se of an unknown sister I have. Well I've got another who I'm in contact with frequently.

That photo of me as a baby is from her, given to her by our dad. Told her never to lose it. She's been telling me that he always talks about me - I'm not sure what about but I'm his only son n firstborn.

To me he's a stranger, merely a sperm donor. I'm 37 now, I've never known the guy. Mum did a good job of bringing me up, I'm alright with that.

Well he's got his own building business (bricky) The company I work for seems like it's had its day. There's no overtime or fk all, wages are s**t. I'm not work-shy, proper grafter me. My sister is telling me I should go work with 'dad' at weekends, learn a new trade.

I'm all for it earning more money, just don't want to seem like it's the only reason I'm bonding. Although it's a good way of breaking the ice after all these years I suppose?

What do u think? * +

madam.x 2.02.14 - 10:01pm
I think you may as well gain something from your 'dad', seeing as he did nothing for you when you were growing up. * +

dre4mz 2.02.14 - 10:01pm
its worth a try , if it dont work out least you tried . * +

dodgey 2.02.14 - 10:02pm
Could u handle it working on a building site? I don't think you'd handle the hard work and the banter. * +

madam.x 2.02.14 - 10:03pm
If some kinda bond forms out of the situation, that's a bonus. If not, you've learned a new skill and had a go at spending time with your father. * +

pout 2.02.14 - 10:05pm
If it were me, i'd want to get to know him, before working with him. You look at someone from a different perspective when you work for them. * +

poplevi 2.02.14 - 10:05pm
If you didn't hate him before you started working with him, you definitely will do after. * +

convictor 2.02.14 - 10:06pm
joining him for all the wrong reasons. if you want to check him out, then have the balls and tell him and do it openly. dont hide behind a thinly veiled excuse of learning a new trade. personally, my pride wouldnt allow me to. * +

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