flirtatious liasons

Subject: flirtatious liasons
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spiceyx 10.04.12 - 06:46pm
Can someone please tell me if its ok to be flirting when one is in a long-term relationship. My head is totally screwed up by my partners constant flirting with the other s*x. Makes me wonder if something is lacking in our relationship also makes me wonder if there's something lacking in me for him to feel the need to do this. * +

mstrywmn 10.04.12 - 06:56pm
ask again another day maybe then i can give u answers * +

chebet 10.04.12 - 07:05pm
i agree * +

boredz 10.04.12 - 07:07pm
hmm yea i wudnt like it if i was with a guy n he flirtin with other girls. * +

mstrywmn 10.04.12 - 07:38pm
auroras answer would have been what id have given had i been having a better day and even at that sometimes ur all just isn't good enough, some of them think they can get away with anything when they know how much u love them! * +

hotvimto 10.04.12 - 07:57pm

@ spiceyx - 10.04.12 - 06:46pm
Can someone please tell me if its ok to be flirting when one is in a long-term relationship. My head is totally screwed up by my partners constant flirting with the other s*x. Makes me wonder if something is lacking in our relationship also makes me wonder if there's something lacking in me for him to feel the need to do this.

you don't sound very self confident there and you might wanna have a look into that, what is it that he does? Cause what you see as flirting others might see as socialising are you sure you can differentiate those 2? No one likes a constantly jealous and possessive partner * +

kurt_x 10.04.12 - 08:24pm
spiteful

flirting is my hobby * +

spiceyx 10.04.12 - 08:32pm
Well one thing for sure is I don't obsess over where he is or what he's doing 24hrs @ day and we both have our own circle of friends who we separately socialise with at times. Mutual friends have came to me on more than one occassion over his flirtatious antics saying I'm better off without him then ask me to keep silent on what they have told me. I've also saw things with my own eyes which I usually brush to the side because I love him while all the time its eating me up inside. Four years ago you wouldn't have met a more confident person than myself these days paaaaaah.... * +