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Subject: Forgiveness
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zonino 16.08.17 - 01:58pm
So about 15 years ago, an employee of mine's dad died. She went back home to her country for funeral and then had to stay longer cos her mum died a week later. We stayed friends and fast forward 10 years of friendship, I meet her living mum. Tonight I find out on fb that her mum passed. I feel bad for her but should I forgive because in my heart I've already helped her grieve? * +
mikeymk 16.08.17 - 02:03pm
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birdy 16.08.17 - 02:05pm
So her mother didn't really die when she said she did? * +
iilmadme 16.08.17 - 02:05pm
It's not nice to tug at people's heart strings with that kind of stuff.it opens wounds for them as they try to pull on their own experiences to help you.not nice at all.but yeah;i'd probably forgive them but not feel inclined to take myself to that place for them again * +
zonino 16.08.17 - 02:06pm
No, but for years we all thought she lost both parents, until she forgot and I met her mum. * +
gt_tdi 16.08.17 - 02:07pm
What iil said, but probably with more swearing, less forgiving and a bit of vengeful plotting. * +
birdy 16.08.17 - 02:10pm
People do some weird things for attention. * +
nikkei 16.08.17 - 02:11pm
Probably what iil said. You can be sorry its happened. But you dont need to be there for her. * +
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