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Subject: Dramatic dream (a bit lengthy)
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tazdevil 25.03.17 - 09:30am
I did not have a restful sleep. I had a very dramatic dream about this girl who I was friends with in the past, but I ended my friendship with her late last year because she never used to respect my boundaries. Moreover, she was a little insulting, and quite pushy and dominating at times. She also lied about her job. She was very secretive about it, but in time, I found out the truth and lost all faith in her. So I decided to discontinue my friendship with her as it was a toxic/abusive friendship. Took me a very long time though, before I was finally able to find closure with her.

Anyway, coming back to the dream. In the dream, she turned up at my house unannounced. RUDE. Then she hugged me, and told me how much she had missed me (which sounds SO sweet, but it seriously annoyed me) I excused myself, and went to the kitchen to ask my mom for advice. My mother said- well, she has made an effort and used the petrol to get here, be nice and make her feel welcome.

So I'm like smiling/giggling and being nice to this girl (forced) but then I remember how she always apologizes first, and then goes back to square one (disrespectful, IMO) so I tell her to leave. At this point, she starts crying (and even begs lol) and I felt like an evil horrible HORRIBLE person.

I actually woke up with a headache, worrying about it coming true. STRESSFUL. I know the chances of THAT happening are very slim, but that b*tch is crazy. You never know.

Just interested to know, what would you do if someone was asking/begging you for another chance (knowing that they don't really change and always go back to square one) and how would you tackle a situation like that without feeling guilty or horrible? * +

iilmadme 25.03.17 - 09:35am
A choice between trying to reassure them a bit n thank them for the apology but continue to protect myself n keep them at arms' length or just telling them it gives me no pleasure n thanks anyway but no.when you are genuinely sorry you know what you deserve * +

4juice 25.03.17 - 09:36am
b***h please, you are missing her and you decided to keep your ego with you. You are having oneitis with this girl, thats why you dreamt about her. You dont dream something if you hadnt thought about it in your day. * +

tazdevil 25.03.17 - 10:00am
Nope, I hadn't thought about her or missed her in a very long time. But I did have a little chat with a friend about her the other day so IDK?

She was sweet, loving and we got along well. I liked her when she was like that, but most of the time, she was very pushy and over-bearing. Rude and insulting, at times. I felt like walking on the eggshells. It took a very long time before I was finally able to confront her. It was time to break some shells, and wake her up lol

I realized that it was better to have my feelings hurt and end it, than to constantly live in fear of how she's going to act. * +

jayna 25.03.17 - 10:01am
Ahh ya still a mammy's perhaps ya dream was a thought projection from ya ma, wishing ya would get from under her feet, get married and get ya own family. * +

iilmadme 25.03.17 - 10:07am
Maybe it's gentler n braver to let them learn they cant get away with treating you badly than to let them think it wont mess up friendships in future * +

tranie 25.03.17 - 10:07am
his mums gonna be waiting a long long time for him to get married and have a family, for a start hes a puff * +

mikeymk 25.03.17 - 10:35am
Sounds like guilt-fuelled self-justification to me. * +

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